If you’d like to get to know your crush a bit better while having some fun together, ask your new love interest one or more of these flirty questions. Are you in love? Are you in lust? Are you better off as friends? These are great conversation starters and some can even lead to potential dates. When asking these playful questions, you may find that you’re not compatible with your crush but you may also fall deeper in “like” with them. They’re all positive and uplifting, giving you the chance to bond…no embarrassing moments or deep existential questions here.
- What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t had the chance to yet?
- What does your perfect day look like from start to finish?
- What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
- If you could choose any celebrity to play you in a movie, who would it be and why?
- What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
- What’s one thing you’re really proud of that I don’t know about yet?
- Do you have a favorite film genre? Are there any upcoming movies you’re looking forward to?
- If you could have any superpower, what would it be and how would you use it?
- Would you rather time travel to the past or the future? What would you want to learn or experience?
- What show or shows could you easily binge watch?
- If you were in a cooking competition, what dish would you make to impress the judges?
- What’s your favorite outdoor activity?
- Where would you go on your dream vacation, and what would you do?
- If you had a theme song, what would it be and why?
- If we had a bet and you won, what would you like your prize to be?
- If we were playing truth or dare, which would you choose?
- Who was your first celebrity crush?
- What band or musician would you most like to see perform live?
- If you could pick a fictional world to live in, which would it be and why?
- What’s your go-to karaoke song?
- What’s the perfect first date activity?
- If you could be famous for something, what would it be?
- What’s something about you that would surprise me?
- If I challenged you to a game or competition, what would you pick to guarantee a win?
- What’s one local restaurant that you absolutely love or would like to try?
How can you use these questions to get dates? It’s simple… Just ask question number 1, 7, 12, 18, 24, or 25 and say something along the lines of, “we should do that sometime!” Here’s an example: if their favorite outdoor activity is hiking, suggest a local trail for the two of you to check out together. Although it’s not quite as easy as it sounds, these are low stakes ways to hang out with your crush – you don’t even need to label these hangs as dates if you don’t want to. Good luck, and enjoy your crush!